5 Life Lessons To Learn Before EnteringYour 30s
As you reach your thirties you should beaware of those hard lessons you have learned over the years.
当你30岁的时候,你应该意识到这些年你已经学到的经验。
“Everything I know I learned after I was thirty.” - Georges Clemenceau
“所有我懂的都是在我三十岁之后学的。”--乔治•克列孟梭
1. You learn to understand the importance of forgiveness
你知道原谅的重要性
“Thirty was so strange for me. I’ve really had to come to terms with the factthat I am now a walking and talking adult.” - C.S. Lewis
“30岁对我来说太陌生。我真的不得不接受现在走路和说话都是成年人的这一事实。”-- C.S.刘易斯
You start having more reason to let go and allow grievances or hurt to heal asyou reach your 30s. You learn that forgiveness is worth the hard work and suchresponsibility starts with you.
30岁的时候,你有更多放手的理由,让不满或伤害痊愈。你知道辛苦努力,开始承担那样的责任,原谅也是值得的。
2. You learn that you can’t really change anything by worrying
你知道担忧也不能改变什么
Worries do not really change your future. You should be more concerned withfacing the future with courage and hope.
担忧真不能改变你的未来,你应该怀抱希望和勇气关心即将到来的未来。
3. You learn to have a more holistic view of success
对成功你会学着有更全面的看法
By the time you reach your 30s you have a different definition of success andyou understand that it is not all about money. Rather about friendships, familyand peace.
在30岁的时候,对于成功你会有不一样的定义,你知道那与钱无关,而是与友谊,家庭和和平有关。
4. You learn that it’s not always about you
你会学会这个世界的中心并不总是你
You understand reasons why you should not be so selfish and want all theattention upon you. You start learning to shift your focus and perspectivesoutside of yourself. You learn to adapt and become a part of the biggerpicture.
你知道你不应该自私,想要所有的注意力都集中在你身上的原因。你开始学着转换与你无关的注意力,期望。你学着去适应,成为整个世界中的一小部分。
5. You learn that joy can come from the most unexpected places
你知道快乐会来源于没抱有期望的地方
As you grow older you start appreciating the simple things more. What neverseemed to be fun when you are younger takes a whole new meaning as you reachyour 30s.
随着年龄的增长,你开始学着更珍惜身边的小事。你之前认为具有全新意义的事,在你30岁的时候你似乎从不会觉得那很有趣。